a travelogue in the time of the information superhighway

1994

My story starts in drizzly, dreary, grey England. I worked as a nurse in a specialist cancer hospital in Manchester. One day, I suddenly entered her world, there she was. At once beautiful, but decaying visibly. Eyes that melt you, fumbled for reasons. High on morphine, she slumped on the chair. Her legs, previously long and graceful, were now fat and full of fluid. She was loosing her hair, something that upset her most. We all witnessed her struggling with the remains of her dignity and modesty, but she carried on fighting. Her mother applied facial cream like a corner man at ringside, her father just looked lost. She was a twenty seven year old woman, right before us, dying in her prime. She seemed to hold up a mirror to the thoughts sailing across my mind, a metaphor for what we've all become and what will become of us. So much potential, so much waste. It is at moments like this that we can take the looking glass to our own fragile existence, and ask questions of it. Cancer had infiltrated her womb, the very giver of life. I became aware of a feeling that her death had released something else, a thirst for living itself. She haunted me. Four months later, I set out on an adventure to view the world that she would no longer see.

Posted by don quixote

Thursday 19 July 2007

New Jersey and NYC

We arrived, with a couple of hours delay, to heat and humidity in the 90's. Katherine's dad and step mum met us and drove us to their home in panther valley a private housing area built into woodland with lovely views of the valley. It's a few miles from a small town called Hackettstown in NW New Jersey about an hours drive from New York City.

Sitting out on the porch (we're virtually the only ones as everyone else are inside with their air conditioning) we've enjoyed some interesting wildlife. A ground hog sniffed along the grass close by, a raccoon was spotted briefly, and we were visited by hummingbirds and cardinals. Deer often cross the roads and go into peoples gardens and we recently had an evening at some friends who occasionally had black bears wonder into their garden and steal bird food. Apparently a mother and her cubs can be very dangerous, they have to keep dogs and themselves inside.

We had a day trip to NYC and wondered around the Soho area before heading off to Brooklyn Heights to look back at the Manhattan skyline and walk back over the Brooklyn bridge which is fantastic. We were told later that the bridge was packed with people fleeing Manhattan and its dust and debris and fear on 9/11, walking the bridge you could imagine it.

To celebrate Katherine's dad's birthday, we headed for the New Jersey shore, right to the southern tip of the state, Cape May. Here we lounged on the beach and were treated to some dolphins playing in the wake of boats not far from the waters edge. Also a wedding party descended onto the beach in the evening, so we sat on the balcony of our hotel, wine in hands, and watched the whole ceremony trying to guess who was who. We also sat around the pool, played shuffleboard(a game where you have a pole and shove a koit kind of thing into a numbered area) and were offered apple martini's by our partying young neighbours. We had lot's of good food and massive portions, risking being harpooned by whaler's the next day on the beach.

We're looking forward to Miami, and joining the latin beat. We go there on the 22nd for 3 nights and then rent a car to Venice on the gulf coast for a couple of days to see Katherine's grandparents. We fly to Quito on the 29th and have found a great hostal near to the old town, go to http://www.secretgardenquito.com/contactus.html we're there for 3 nights and will need to acclimatise to the altitude. Further south, close to the Peruvian boarder, we hope to stay at this incredible hostal http://www.izhcayluma.com/en/frameset.html Now we are getting excited!!!

Oh I nearly forgot, the clay hotel in south beach Miami, is the same place David and I stayed at back in 1994 when we first got to the US, so it will be fascinating to see it again.

9 comments:

david said...

Hi Jama, nice to read your comments. Things are going well here, not sure if you or any of Alex buddies have been to Argentina, but I would say its a better option than Spain. Very very little crime outside if the big BA, agreeable people, welcoming and very friendly. Here in the hills gets cold, very cold, like minus 9, but the old woodburning stove keeps us toastie warm. An extremely cheap country to live in, for example the necessities such as whiskey 1.75, ciggies 40p, for 2 pieces of pizza and a coke 50p. You can easily live off 100 pounds a month inc accomodation. Of course Im talking about surviving here and not living the life of a king....or queen.......but if you want 6 months tasting a different latino country its very do-able for that money. Yes really looking forward to seeing Alex and Catherine again, its been a long time. We could do with them being here this weekend, as the Argies are taking their winter break, and the big bucks from BA will be here, but selfish bastards are doing there own thing, will have to pay someone instead, by the way working for a living here is difficult, only 46% of the people work with a contract, the rest have to survive on 20 pesos a day, 4 squid to you and me. Good to see Alex has put finger to computer and keeping us all updated, would like to read more from Catherine about her thoughts and dreams, but all I can hear is me me me me, wonder who thats from!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ferdinand De Bargos said...

Get on with it, short, snappy and to the point please.

Hows Cathy.

I've had a beer......

jamanoble said...

Hi David, good to know that everythings going well. Though it sounds like hard work, i get the impression that Argentina is a cool place to live/visit. In fact i must confess from your description of life there i'm feeling quite jealous and hope that one day your'll let me come and visit? And, i promise not to mention the war.
Yes it was good to finally hear from "Don Q", and your right we would all love to hear from Don Q's better half "Katherine the Great". Why hasn't Katherine got her own blog?? It would be good to hear life from her point of view, and the truth about travels with Alex. Like you said david, all about me,me,me.

FERINAND De BARGOS!
Is that the tubby bloke who used to live next door to him and her?
Aylesbury's most excellent D.I.Y.er who took two years to strip an old window frame, otherwise known as the neighbourhood Bar? How are things my old son? Congrat's to you and the lovely Julie on your marriage by the way, sorry it's late. I hope for Julie's sake your new house is in good repair?
takecare Jama.

P.S. Why do all you Southern Ponces have names like "don quixote's travels" and "ferdinand de bargos" ??

Bob the Builder said...

Yes - where is La Donna Katerina? No doubt polishing Don Q's saddlebag and making him tapas! If he keeps on eating like this, he will end up like Falstaff. Can't remember if the young Don Q ever studied any Shakespeare?

Bob the Builder said...

Just looked at the links to the hostels near Quito. Looks like the sort of environment for the Don to start writing his best seller/s - now that JKR has announced that Harry P will be no more!?

Ferdinand De Bargos said...

Jama

Your comments are far more interesting that Alex's! New house is good, i've not broken anything yet. You should see what the new people have done to the flat, a new 6 foot high fence all around it.

Alex, everyone is getting a bit concerned about Cath. You haven't done anything silly I hope.......

jamanoble said...

Tim, are the people who bought the flat from eastern europe by any chance? Or more likely are they just sick of people constantly knocking on the back window asking for alcohol?
Really only 6feet?

Bob the Builder said...

Alex,
Just ignore the cheeky comments and keep the purple prose coming - looking forward to the next episode!

By the way, hope La Donna K is OK?

jamanoble said...

Hi Alex,Katherine just looked at the web site of the secret garden in Quito,looks fantastico. Especially the volunteer opportunities, for food,board and one to one spanish lessons i could certainly washup, do the bar work, and as you know i love cooking. Please,please find out more while your there. I'm thinking maybe about next Feb 08. Meantime i'm sure your both sunning yourselves right now on some beach in or around Miami. Do make sure to use plenty of sun tan lotion, we don't won't two over done brit lobsters turning up in Quito now do we? Keep the flag flying, Jama xx.

Bob and Bob's Bride.
Dammit!! That Bloody SARKOZI!!!